You guidance is very insightful and quite meaningful. I hope Melle has a chance to read it. I agree that the concentration of what we want in life versus what we don’t have/want is a vital point of understanding.

I think sometimes we get what we need and not what we want which can be two separate things or the same thing. I do think that when powerful emotions that are connected to desires and wishes, one must be careful that these emotions are in the purest form. Yes your thoughts create your reality. I don’t believe one should focus a lot of energy on the process but keep the end result in mind. When you let it go, it will come to you in certain steps that leads to this result.

Your experience leading to your second husband is an aspect of this entire process. It is a good example of clear intention. I can think of many examples when manifestation did occur but it was not in the highest good of the person in the short term scheme of things. Some people are not as advanced, nor do they know themselves enough to actually believe that their dreams, wishes and desires will come true. It is a struggle for some and for others it develops with a little more practice (depends on their emotional patterns).

Your story gives others “hope” of manifesting their desires. Thank you for sharing.

Madame Seaqueen.

Melle could help attract that relationship scenario, by envisioning how she wants to feel in a relationship..write down things that you would do with the right partner, how would it feel? what would he be like?
I would suggest taking a specific person out of the equation, and put out to the Universe how you would like a relationship in general. This way, there isn’t the resistance, or doubt, or charge around a specific personality…and it’s easier to manifest the perfect relationship for you! Try it, it works!
10 years ago, I wrote about 5 pages about what I would like in the perfect relationship for me (this after an unhappy marriage of 20 years- so I had some contrast!!lol) Literally, within a month, I met someone who I became friends with, and over metaphysical conversation, shared the pages I had written…lo and behold! we both realised very quickly, that this man fit the description in my pages!!! It took another year or so, but we are now very happily married for 8 years!
The more you want, and notice that it isn’t here yet, the more you delay it coming into your life…so try to pivot

SpiritSong~

First let me say I compleatly love your site and your blog info.
I have had my cards read by a very reputable lady here where I live. My first time was only 9 or so months ago. Much of what she told me that day has come true. Funny enough however the one area that I wanted to come true more than any other has not yet come to be. Out of frustration in the winter I went baCK ONLY 4 1/2 months after the first reading. She does a traditional gypsy reading with a deck that is something like the zig deck and ends off with a palm reading.
Each time she sees me she tells me basicly the same thing with regards to my love life. \i have yet to see if it will manifest. In fact almost the opposet has been the case thus far. She tries to reasure me that no matter what things look like now I will get what/ who I want in the next few months. I want what I want so badly is this just a case of my wants being so big that the cards only show me my wants and not the reality of the situation. Or has time been my enemy with regards to when I will have my dreams come true.

melle